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#YesOrNo???

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Can faithfulness truly exist in a long distance relationship?

#QuoteOfTheDay

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Never see your wife as an outsider when your mother is involved,she is your wife and also playing the role of a mother to your kids just as your mother so respect her and appreciate her to the core-TKGOLD

#Don'tBeDeceived

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Be careful with a partner who claims there is nothing wrong in giving the opposite sex endearing pet names...He/She just might be cheating #ScamAlert

#ToWhomItMayConcern

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Relationship is not a game but a risk, keep it real and be loyal to just a partner.

#HotTopic:Making It Work

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Some of us are wondering how can we make our relationship,marriage work seeing the rate of break up and divorce or some of you are at the verge of loosing your dear relationship but the goodnews is we got certified means of making your relationship or marriage work. First of all BUILD your character as it is a weapon to combat any misbehaviour that could lead to seperation or break up. The essence of a good character cannot be overemphasized being that it plays a pivotal role in any relationship success. Characters such as honesty,loyalty,kindness and forgiveness help to prevent the evilness of cheating,betrayal and lies,only a positive character can fight this marital menace of deception to the core,incase you don't have them do yourself and the relationship or marriage the favour of building them inside of you. Character building or adjustment is necessary so as to accomodate your partner into your life cause it's no longer a journey of one but two different individuals comi…

#HotTopic:Before Saying I Do

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Marriage isn't a union to go into cause you just found someone you are in love with or can gain something from,marriage is about so many things so before you go for it there are certain things you must know.Before saying I Do you should ask yourself is marriage for me?this question you can answer by understanding the real concept of marriage. Knowledge they say is power,the knowledge of what you are about getting into is important so as to know if indeed it's made for you. Not every person has a place in an ideal marriage cause not everyone has what it takes. One must know that the ingredients for a successful marriage are love,companionship,patience,faithfulness,loyalty,understanding,responsibility,maturity and financial stability(to say the least),these ingredients are what come together to face and overcome any obstacle.For instance when your partner loses his job or can't bear a child what must be put in place at this time is understanding,encouragement,patience and …

#CoupleOfTheWeek

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Our couple of the week goes to Jada and Will Smith. We believe they absolutely deserve it coming thus far for the past at least 18 years...They are blessed with two vibrant kids. They believe that the secret of marriage is not just quitting,they also added that the key to their successful marriage is the fact that they worked on theirselves individually and presenting theirselves to one another better than before.

#LoveSongOfTheWeekend

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Our Love song of the weekend is by Nigerian female artiste simi,she sings about unconditional love and love being no respecter of status,position,tribe and the likes and we at lovelife thinks that's what true love should be like. "Love Don't Care" by SIMI!Check it out.

#DoNotBeDeceived

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The only language any marriage or relationship understands is the Love language;not your ego,pride,absurd culture and traditions.

#ToWhomItMayConcern

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Never build fear and low self esteem in your partner. Don't call her ugly,don't tell him he aint nothing.Never degrade your partner. Deal with your insecurities without trying to bring others down.

#QuoteOfTheDay

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Loving someone does not entail being a shadow of yourself especially due to abuse-TKGOLD

#HotTopic-Healing Your Broken Heart

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There is no easy way to heal but for sure there can be a more difficult way to heal,therefore,we advice you pay attention so you heal "on time"cause bearing a pain for too long can only amount to more suffering that shouldn't be in the first place.
First of all decide that you wanna move on even though YOU DON'T FEEL LIKE IT or you think it ain't possible. Healing is a choice,decide you ain't gonna stay there and wallow over a broken relationship,once it happens it's time to move on already so make A CHOICE AND TAKE A STAND.
Secondly,understand that you need time to heal,this means that you need a length of time to get back on your feet. If you are not patient enough you would take several steps backward on a journey that should have taken you just a certain time. You need that time to rebuild your confidence to a reasonable level before moving into another relationship cause breakup can make the most confident person shattered into a shadow of thei…

#ToWhomItMayConcern

Don't ever compel or manipulate anyone into a relationship with you. Needless to say, you'll eventually loose such a person in a more degrading and hurtful manner.

#DoNotBeDeceived

Long distance relationship are for two responsible minds,be responsible enough to provide what it takes and be wise enough to pick a responsible partner for such a relationship.

#QuoteOfTheDay

The two people coming together for a relationship must be "emotionally" ready;ready for the best and ready for the worst because in truth relationship is an avenue for the most "UNPREDICTABLE OCCURRENCE"so therefore be prepared,don't get a broken heart and consider suicide,learn your lessons cause there are always lessons to be learnt and apply it to make your incoming relationship worthwhile-TKGOLD

#YesOrNo???

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Should there be any such thing as "Yours and Mine"in a relationship or marriage???YES or NO
In other words should there be personalized assets with boundaries that restricts your partner's access to these assets???

#ToWhomItMayConcern

A healthy relationship should be about you and your partner no side chicks involve...Don't Settle for less once the relationship is a serious one it should be treated as such.

#ToWhomItMayConcern

There is a limit to what your spouse can tolerate of your excesses so if he(she) always allow your excesses..hmm be careful perhaps he(she) got an alternative solution to "your problem" One more thing;when there are signals of any mishap in your relationship or courtship there certainly gonna be an aftermath so take heed!

#DoNotBeDeceived

A relationship with no challenges or memories of challenges conquered in time past is not to be trusted. Don't give room for excuses in your relationship cause those excuses are gonna be like a crack wall that allows the lizards in...e.g minus the nature of my job I would have had time for you...really?

#HotTopic;Essence Of Learning To Love Yourself

The beauty of self love cannot be over emphasized,it is realistic that we wanna feel complete and wanna know that we are good enough but the truth is every human on earth deals with personal insecurities!Why?because no human was born perfect. You must be aware of your inner beauty in order to have some healthy sense of pride and self worth. This brings us to our hot topic of the day "The Essence Of Learning To Love Yourself" First off you can only exhibit the very best of yourself when you've master the act of self love,self despise or condemnation does nothing but hold you back from being yourself and exhibiting your full capabilities, it holds you back from smiling cause you think you look ugly when you smile,it holds you back from singing cause you think Beyonce sure sounds better,and even worse it holds you back from achieving your dreams cause you think you are not the best at what you do,in life it's not about who has the best ability but insead those…

#OurLoveSongOfTheWeek

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End of the road by boys 2 men is an absolutely gorgeous song about true love and the unwilligness to let that love go..talk about fighting for love...It is in fact one of the greatest hits of all time...Boys 2 Men are such love song perfectionist,you can do well by listening to this track as soon as you can! See ya later

#YesOrNo

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Would you tell your partner your deadly secret?...what you wont do,do for love...*runs away*

#SweetCouple

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They celebrated their 17th wedding anniversary just last year...its amazing how long they've being together..funny enough all our sweet couples have their wives older...you just might wanna look into that area...lol

#HotTopic:How To Bring Back The Lost Vibe In Your Relationship

Perhaps your relationship is as dry as the desert & you are in that stage of boredom but you believe that this is just a phase,let me relax and go through it. Don't just go through it bring back the vibe!If you decide to remain"vibeless"all because you believe it is a mere phase,it just might be too late when reality dawns on you. So we here @lovelife with TKGOLD will help you bring back the life that is lost in your relationship. Here we go....
     By now we assumed you must have discovered the lost of interest, sparkles,attention and excitement in your one time energetic relationship,the first thing to do is communicate YES we just said COMMUNICATE!make sure you talk to your partner,you are to make sure you are both aware and concern about the situation at hand so as to revive what is dead. It takes courage and interest before you decide to make it right. During this time of communication ask yourself the reason the relationship is cold as ice is it a matter of an…

#JokeOfACouple

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Our joke of a couple today is Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston!How long again did their relationship last?We don't think it took the time we used in typing this post. Taylor and Tom at a beach in Rhode

#DoNotBeDeceived

If He/She tells you,you aint nothing pls don't believe him/her-Tupac Amaru Shakur