Showing posts from November, 2017

#HotTopic: Once Bitten Is Twice Shy!

There are people who have been married twice and divorced twice, the number of marriage they've had has been equivalent to the number of divorces they've being through. It's a study not a shaming act! What's actually interesting is the fact that they keep hooking up with the ghost of their exes, so of course history keeps on happening to them. 
Once beaten they say twice shy but you ain't shy yet even thrice? Now, how can you get shy on this "curse"? Here's how!
Recognise Your Weakness

OK you think you've got a criteria, but do you know that your criteria has being your weakness so far? It's safe to say that what you have is actually a weakness and not a criteria. 
For instance you get attracted to beautiful women only, you court them and then marry them, then it turns out all the beauty queens you ever married end up divorcing you or vice versa. On the other hand, you just broke up with a hunk then you opt for another hunk, your undoing might …


Yea, she is your girlfriend however, is that enough reason to expect and demand wifely duties from her???That's you crossing your boundary, man!
You call her your girlfriend but you expect wifely duties from her. Either sex or you end the relationship, either cooking or you break her heart, either cleaning or you threaten the relationship with a breakup. Acting that way only makes you a misogynist, manipulator and a very self centred dude! 
Hey wake up! she's not your wife don't expect her to act like one! Every boyfriend and girlfriend must work within the limit of their boundary not beyond!
Your "wife material test" has nothing to do with your stone age mentality, nor does it has anything to do with you enslaving her but, should have everything to do with her "character". You have also failed the "husband material test" if you keep on being controlling. She ain't yours yet so, don't demand from her what a married couple should be ga…

#PickYourCandyCelebrityCrush: Reekardo Banks & Koredo Bello!

Where are the Reekaddict and Bellovers???
Could the Easy jeje crooner be your candy crush cause of his dreadlocks or the butterfly crooner cause of his jerry curled hair???Reekardo confessed to be the boobs kinda guy as for Korede his guilty pleasure is on the low key we can't say what he likes when it comes to the female physique if you wanna find out listen to his songs and see what he lays emphasis on or his interviews(you never can tell)Is it Reekardo or Koredo???

#CoupleOfTheWeek: Comedian Ali Baba and Wife Mary!

Their love story is just like in the telenovelas, true love would always find it way back! It all started in 1992 when they first met, they took an hiatus for a long period of time during which Ali baba got married and divorced, then went back to marry who was already the mother of his child before the said break, Mary! Well Ali baba came back begging, Mary was like "you won't have me such an easy prey" lol he persuaded her for three years after which they got married in 2006. She is a very different woman from the rest of the females he had a relationship with, the comedian confessed, according to him he was mislead by stardom, having the desire to keep a glamorous woman due to his status quo rather than look at the bigger picture(some men are like that it takes them a while before they see clearly e.g 2baba just saying OK that's more than a saying it's a reality)God gave him another chance with her and they signed, sealed, and delivered the contract. Mary becam…

#CupidSongOfTheWeek: Romeo & Juliet by Johnny Drille

This beautiful country love song is delivered by a delectable one of a kind Nigerian artiste Johnny Drille. Love sure is a beautiful thing with a melody such as this! The song would dazzle you into a romantic mood, its lyrics are just perfect for the romantic couples just as much as the impeccable voice of the singer can send one to a romantic paradise. And for the guys with the dream of love It is a great song to win her over. The singer passionately asks to be her Romeo while she becomes her Juliet. Love is indeed a beautiful thing and so also is this beautiful country song!

#JokeOfACouple: Iyanya & Yvonne Nelson

How come "amazing" people don't make amazing relationships??dazzling right??  Yvonne Nelson and some bandwagon of  female celebs who broke up with a male celeb they are in a relationship with brought this to our concern, they had to conclude with the ironical punchline "he's an amazing person, or a great individual" despite narrating how much of a cheat and a liar those men were. Amazing you say when they are no better than a Casanova. It's high time y'all admit you dated a douchebag for real!Anyways when you are hot like Yvonne Nelson and you just got into a relationship with a musician like Iyanya and his new hit single screams "all I want is your waist" you know you are in for a short thing.Yvonne Nelson clearly stated that their seven to eight month relationship was built on lies, all thanks to singer Iyanya. She talked about how she shared photos of them together but the same couldn't be said of her then partner cause he had too m…


In a relationship don't ever practice "my way is the only way there is" adjust, compromise positively and be happy! For instance you are an introvert dating an extrovert, in order to be truly thoughtful and less selfish try to get outta your shell a bit so you wouldn't have to bore your partner, as the extrovert try to cut down on your level of socialization. This conscious effort of making it work is what truly shows how important the relationship is to the both of you!More over, only a fool living in their paradise would expect things to remain 100% their style, attitude and personality as compared to when they were alone.What's love without accommodation and tolerance??


End that type of relationship where your partner opts for actions such as malice and violence instead of the use of communication cause it does no one any good.


If you loved first then it is your duty to prove to your love interest that you are worth loving in a reciprocal manner "not less or more."


Would it bother you if your partner makes another woman or man their "Woman Crush Wednesday" or "Man Crush Monday" respectively?


Just a simple question!
Should cheating lead to a break up???
Reasons for your answers plz!