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#TKGOLDExtra!

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A lot of people have issues letting go off "wonderful abusers" and we understand why they feel it's difficult for 'em;He or she may be the best sex rider.
They are cheerful givers.
She is the best cook.
He is the funniest and most romantic.And the list goes on..but really you can't stay in an abusive relationship just cause you are enjoying their good side or whatever it is, is keeping you there. Any relationship that toils with your peace of mind isn't the one for you.

#HotTopic: Dealing With Financial Struggles In Your Relationship?

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We know it isn't the sweetest experience to date a man whom we might term as financially disable, it may be frustrating depending on how much of a woman you see yourself. But then If that's the case, pls kindly UNDERSTAND that the same way you are broke is the same way he is broke, the same way it is not a crime cause you don't have is the same way it isn't a crime that he doesn't have, the same way it may be annoying that you are financially dependent is the same way it is annoying that he doesn't have enough to spare you so much. You also have to understand that the truth still remains that your help does not come from any man but God and after that should be your parents. He didn't put himself in that situation the same way your parents may not have put their selves in the situation to not be able to fend for your needs.Yes it is in fact a big deal just like every other relationship struggle but the truth is as long as he cares with the little he has he …

#PickYourCandyCelebrityCrush: D'banj & Don Jazzy.

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Between Dbanj and Don Jazzy who would you opt for?Undi the condi of my heart, I'll go for D'banj. Love his style and confidence. Would always go for the obviously confident guy! Won't do "Don Jaja" (like he was called by Toyin Abraham in the movie Alakada) cause he is too playful for my liking!Go ahead and make your choice sweet readers!

#CupidSongOfTheWeek: African Queen By Tuface Idibia

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Just before you say the song is notorious for being cliché which honestly isn't, here it is on our cupid song for this week. This melody truly deserves all the accolades, recognitions, air plays and respect accorded to it!African Queen by Idibia is a super romantic love song that depicts true love at its finest! Just imagine the lyricist say "no one can ever take your place AND THAT IS A FACT THAT CAN NEVER BE ERASED". This means that if your man/lady feels cheating on you is most likely then you haven't found the one yet cause true love doesn't give room for another.He says you are my African Queen and I KNOW THIS MEANS THAT; you are the only one I would serve, I'll give you my heart, my love, my body and money. Who could think of anything better than you???Who could think of ever hurting you??? These are just the right word and MINDSET of a great lover! So let this guide you!The highlight of this love song is when the singer says I LOVE YOU JUST THE WAY YOU…

#CoupleOfTheWeek: Naeto C & Nicole!

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Yes, they are young couple, 5yrs & still counting! However, they obviously have what most young couples don't. Take for instance, they turned the infatuation they had into true love through hard work. Most young couple don't survive that stage, come the first six months of the marriage and they're already seeking separation or divorce. Nicole attributes the survival of their marriage to "a deep commitment to each other and the children, mutual respect and a marriage rooted in God, which she terms TRUE LOVE!Furthermore, calling Nicole a wise woman wouldn't be outta context. Hear what she had to say" THE SACRAMENT OF MATRIMONY IS AN OPPORTUNITY TO GROW IN GRACE & VIRTUE CAUSE, IT IS NOT EASY. In other words, Grace and virtue is a tool for survival of any marriage.The fascinating factor about this "forever young" couple is that, not a negative word has been heard nor reported in the media about their marriage. This kind of celebrity couple beli…

#JokeOfACouple: Mercy Aigbe and Lanre Gentry

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Lol! They really do believe in social media resolving their marital woes! They play together back and forth on Instagram.Mr Gentry is a wife beater, according to Mercy and the rumor mongers. An allegation that has been levelled against him some years back which he vehemently debunked along with his wife. Well, I don't blame Mercy she was only been humble and patient to a supposedly good man even to the point of a broken skull, anyways there she had enough.However, we can't say the condition of their hearts right now if they both still want the marriage or not. Some weeks ago Mr Gentry, still wished his wife a happy birthday.They are both blessed with two kids!Moral of the day; don't marry an abuser or a man who feels threatened by you, whether threatened by your choice of career or account statement or a man who feels he's doing you a favour you have to pay back! Winks*

#DoNotBeDeceived

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Avoid tricky men, men who don't seem to know what they want however wants to keep you both going for some selfish reasons, men who are either not here or there! Trust me they only "seem" not to know what they want but they truly do, and they know it ain't you after all!They are the men who don't see you together forever however they are in a relationship with you! They are the ones who seem to hint excuses why it is impossible for you two to be together in the future however "a bird in hand is better off a thousand in the bush. They be like let's just see how things go between us. They are simply time wasters!

#ToWhomItMayConcern!

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This is actually funny to me. Reason being, some ladies think being with a man who abuses you would eventually prove a point, prove a point that she is all faithful, strong, in love and ever abiding....Wake up girl, someone else can love you better. A person who doesn't see your beauty can never try to nurture it nor appreciate it. Leave an abusive relationship. It's for the best when you take a bow.

#QuestionOfTheDay???

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If your partner gets a sex doll how would you react???Break up or break the doll's head???

#Yes/No

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A man is at the verge of divorce for leaving his wife unprotected in harms way while he ran for his dear life.Should he be blamed? Has he failed to be a husband? Is that what a good husband would do? Was the wife right by filling for a divorce?#Yes/No? dear readers!

#QuoteOfTheDay!

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True love is when you are loved JUST THE WAY YOU ARE!

#PickYourCandyCelebrityCrush: Chidinma OR Rihanna

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They are singers from two worlds apart, but we all may agree that they are the queen of the crush kingdom.
We don't think any one has got more crush candidates than these two beautiful songstresses do.  Still go ahead and #PickYour CandyCelebrityCrush. For us we'll definitely pick Chidinma, not only has she got that beautiful glowing skin she's also very charming and has a lot of self respect too.

#TKGOLDExtra!

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Lack of love between spouses is what leads them away from  understanding each other.It's the reason why a partner cannot help but misunderstand his wife's crazy mood swing after child birth.
It's the reason why a couples can't help but be impatient with each other.When there is love there is understanding and empathy giving room for less mockery and frustration!

#HotTopic: No Man or Woman Would Make A Great Partner Nor Parent If They Got This Attitude!

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There is this attitude I find pretty  common and off putting amongst men which alters how they are supposed to function as leaders in their own home. Here it is; LAID BACKNESS!A man who wouldn't achieve much does not need to be anything other than become laid back. That attitude automatically puts him in a position to be irresponsible, and therefore be unable to function as a leader in his own home as earlier stated. And here is why; 1)He becomes nonchalant, a laid back man has a life motto which is "Simply Can't Be Bothered" it doesn't matter how embarrassing his life is about to become he just can't be bothered with the things he should concern himself with. He doesn't care about getting a job on time, he has to be begged to get his own apartment to allow himself(or family)some privacy, he just can't do it UNLESS he gets pushed and nagged, neither would he restock his refrigerator or food store UNLESS they are almost empty. A laid back husband doesn…

#JokeOfACouple: Nigerian super stars D'banj and Genevieve

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Lol! "Steaming hot water vapour" I think that would best describe their  relationship. I really don't think it could have survived its hotness, did I hear someone say Jay Z and Beyonce are such a power couple and it survived not just the dating phase but crisis in the marriage as well? well this is Genevieve the Nollywood diva and D'banj Eja NLA the big fish if these duo had survived the relationship phase I wouldn't believe the marriage could survive.Anyways they dated for sometimes and had to break up for some reasons that D'banj the Oliver twist crooner had too many ladies on his bid and Genny was also faulted for her lack of commitment.... yaddah yaddah yaddah!!!Wowser! Some years later D'banj is married with a son! Cheers to that!
Genevieve on the other hand is on her way to get the ring if she is interested in marriage!And no, I won't forget to mention that D'banj is very picky when it comes to the women he dated. Dude has got taste like his…

#CupidSongOfTheWeek: Best Thing I Never Had By Beyonce.

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This song is indeed an epic clapback to a cheating ex!The lyricist threw a brutal shade on her ex citing him as the"best" thing she never had in other words, the best thing that could have happened to her is to have him literally outta her life! Savage!Here, Beyonce sings of an unfaithful partner whom she almost thought was a gent worthy of her love but lucky for her his character flames were seen and she was rescued from what would have been a bitter heartbreak for her!The song begins with the common saying "what goes around comes back around"The lyrics are empowering and can give you every reason to move on fast from a breakup and an undeserving relationship without looking back!

#CoupleOfTheDay: Nicholas James Vujicic and Kanae Miyahara

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Their love story is a beautiful one that retells hope and true love and of course God's faithfulness. Nicholas is a Christian evangelist and motivational speaker born with
tetra-amelia syndrome, a rare disorder characterized by the absence of arms and legs. He is one of the seven known surviving individuals planet-wide who live with the syndrome (according to Wikipedia)Obviously Nicholas is an unstoppable man of faith not only does he has a blossoming career he also got himself a beautiful wife and four lovely children which includes most recently his identical twin daughters. He doesn't just have what seems like the perfect family only because our God is a miracle worker but also because there is more to Nicholas than meets the eyes. His wife Kanae definitely was impressed by the other things she saw in him which were missing in the other men she's met. That should teach us to always build the inner being in us cause that's where the beauty and the keeper truly lies.T…

#ToWhomItMayConcern

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When your Ex dumps you in an  unappealing manner for someone else please make sure you cut all ties with them especially when they become married the reason is because if they keep communicating with you, they would emotionally tie you down while you on the other hand becomes unaware of that fact  in the course of that petty and unprofitable communication they are having with you! Once it is over make sure it is over otherwise you would spend time on frivolities chasing shadows of past boy/girl friend!

#DoNotBeDeceived

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You are not married or in a relationship because your Facebook status says so or because your marriage certificate proves it and you have a wedding band, neither would you stay married and act accordingly because you are married to one of the finest, nor the richest or one of the most wonderful virtuous human beings. You are married and you will ACT like it ONLY when you are transformed by the RENEWAL of your MIND.Immaturity and a faulty way of thinking that one is missing out on something is one of the core factors that would lead a man/woman astray while married. Our mind is very powerful and it would do us a lot of good if we could have the RIGHT MINDSET. Transform your mindset fellas. You ain't missing out on anything. When maturity sets in self control sets in and you see things that are beneath you as beneath you!

#QuoteOfTheDay!

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Some people are the "best" thing You never had because having them in your life would be sad. -TKGOLDYou finally let go off a cheat do not regret it.
You let go off that abuser it's a blessing dearie.
You let go off that stingy lover it's all for a cheerful giver believe it.
They are the best thing you never had.

#Yes/No

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For better, for worse? Do you really think that is a valid marital vow?

#QuestionOfTheDay!

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What would you advice him do???