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#TKGOLDExtra!

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Once you take interest in a repentant person who had an unflattering past and you choose to date them, kindly, put it at the back and front of your mind never to judge or treat the relationship based on their history.Please, just before trying to date such a person make sure you are ready to accept them for who they are first, make sure you believe them when they say "I'm a changed person" and above all see and accept the changes in them. Otherwise, insecurity and distrust will kill the love you have for them and finally frustrate the relationship until it disappears into thin air. Be sure enough that you are indeed ready to accept them for who they have become and treat them accordingly. We say this because, some people can't let go. If you can't accept a person for who they are, kindly take a walk. Love loves originality.

#PickYourCandyCelebrityCrush: Miracle OR Tobi

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OK, so for today we got you Miracle and Tobi of #bbn2018. Who would you crush on or who are you crushing on already between the two friends? You want the pilot who is confident as Hercules, and candid as a mirror or the photographer who is gentle as a dove, playful as a butterfly and patient as Job?

#HotTopic: Ghost Of A Past Lover!

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Once or even twice in our lives, there was this person we dated and we were completely thrilled by their person. It may be their physique, romance, occupation and what have you that left a momentum on us. However, we can agree that we know they are not just good enough for us. Hence, the need for a separation, break up or divorce.
Ghost of past lover is a situation whereby, you begin to CHASE or LOOK OUT for all or most of the ATTRIBUTES possessed by a FORMER spouse, lover, or partner in the PRESENT lover.
It is a SUBCONSCIOUS OBSESSION on your Ex. Whereby, Exes measure up as the yardstick or criterion for a new date. Maybe, because you think you'd be missing out if it weren't them.
The sad news is, you are going in cycles. So what do you expect? A replay of your HISTORY! Is your history that impressive? If not, then change direction. If you want a new result then change your strategy. Let your standard and values abide but not your past. Even if they were so great, it'…

#CupidSongOfTheWeek: Morenikeji by Konstant.

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This song works magic on the mind and in the heart. Ask me how I know this. The first time we actually took this song to heart was of recent while it played on the radio and boom, we were stuck on it. Eventually, it landed on this beautiful segment. For EVERYONE WHO EVER LISTENED TO THIS SONG, THEY FELL IN LOVE WITH IT AT FIRST HEARING. Yours can't be an exception unless you're heartbroken.You know, there are songs which make love such a beautiful thing, this is one of them. This song was also used as a soundtrack in the Yoruba movie "Ayo mi". Wow! He said your love in my heart is as cold as the mud pot. You know how soothing the water in a mud pot can be, if you don't know, try it out (thanks to my Grandma!). The great lyricist and singer promise to never deny his heartthrob, never to leave nor forget her no matter his journey in life. He promised to build his love for her on Truth!It was done mostly in the indigenous language, Yoruba (that means it's rich i…

#CoupleOfTheWeek: SholaAllyson Obaniyi & Toyin Obaniyi.

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The love between these lovebirds is akin to "ife bi eji owuro" (love like the morning dew). They met each other in the church choir like Jack met Kate in the Titanic Ship but on the contrary, their love boat never sunk, it sailed so well, it produced three lovely kids namely: Ayobami, Mopelola and Obafunmiwo. They got married in the year 2003 (also released the evergreen love song Eji owuro in 2003, are you seeing the correlation?). So if you do your math well, they've been officially sailing their love ship together for the past 15 years. Uhhh! They deserve to be here!!!Shola Obaniyi née Allyson, described her hubby, Toyin Obaniyi as "synonymous to sweetness". She went on to say "You let me fly in my place for destiny! That one ehn? And you are mature and secured with it. You know I'll always fly a return to you" Awwn! How sweet to be supported and celebrated by one's true love, one who doesn't poison the relationship with the venom of je…

#JokeOfACouple

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To every couple who knows just how to cuddle on Instagram or any public space, howbeit, feel very disconnected in the privacy of their home, remains our distinguished guests on this column of #JokeOfACouple!

#DoNotBeDeceived

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Being pressurized into marriage eventually leads to pressure in the marriage. In your own interest, do not succumb to any pressure, for it is misleading. Do not pressurize anyone!

#ToWhomItMayConcern!

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As a gentleman or a lady if you don't COMMAND respect from your partner, then, you haven't found the one.

#QuestionOfTheDay

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What do you think?

#QuoteOfTheDay!

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In the absence of love they make excuses but in the face of love they fight excuses -TKGOLD

#Yes/No

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Do you believe you are worth loving and cherishing?Some just can't think in the affirmative but, know for a fact, anyone can be loved just the way they are. If you think otherwise, work on your self esteem, so you don't end up abused.

#HotTopic: What's your basis for a relationship? Materials or Love???

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What's inspiring your choices of a spouse?Materialism OR Love???Whatever is behind your decision will determine the outcome.It's ok to want the good looks, the good life, however, there's something beyond that. There's something more controlling above that! There's something to prioritize above materialism, because that something cannot be OVERLOOKED no matter how you look at it.Without that, materialism is UNENJOYABLE after it has been achieved!What then should you prioritize above materialism?Love demonstrated in character!Then all other needs can and will follow!Guys, read this! If any girl at all, is disrespecting, dragging or threatening your relationship with her, all because of your red bank alert, do yourself a favour ditch her! You don't need such a woman. You need a motivator, a confidante, a booster, a person who believes in you and who can support you not the small type who believes the responsibility of being "something in life" rests on …

#PickYourCandyCrush: Wande Coal et Falz

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Ladies and perhaps gentlemen, do you want a "black diamond" or you want "something light?" Your decision will direct you to either Wande coal or Falz.Over the years, both artistes have not only mastered the art of music but of fashion and suave looks.You may prefer Wande coal's honeyed and silvery voice or love Falz's humour and rapping style. The choice is yours!

#TKGOLDExtra: Relationship, Sex & Companionship

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For MOST people relationship has become a place for LIBERAL SEX rather than the primary purpose of companionship. Ask yourself, in the course of this relationship have we acquired basic things like companionship, have I known and seen their real intention for me, Have I seen them truly care for me? Have I seen them worthy of being reliable? If you can't answer these basic questions but you can count the numbers of time you already had sex, then you are not in a real relationship, you're just in a liberal sex relationship. Your relationship has been hijacked by sex.

#CupidSongOfTheWeek: My Love Is Here To Stay By Tuface ft VIP

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Can you feel the sound?
VIP and Tuface burning it down!When it's a love song and it's tuface's, then it can only be mesmerizing! This is such an amazing, love song! If love were to be demonstrated according to the words of the lyricists, then it can only be love indeed!If you haven't gotten to the point where he or she pledges loyalty, love, protection to you, then we don't know anymore!Tuface now TuBaba had this to say;"My baby cool it down, don't wanna see you messing around or sexing around CAUSE YOU ARE MY NUMBER ONE."The truth is when you are in a relationship with someone who prioritizes you or is dedicated to you, then you shouldn't be caught cheating, being laid back, or acting stupid cause you actually mean the world to them! It's a honour!Honour true love when you find it! Some have it all going for them, but still can't appreciate it, why?Greed!  They are insatiable!

#CoupleOfTheWeek: JaRule et Aisha Atkins

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Jarule has been married for 16 years?That came to us as a pleasant surprise. How beautiful for couples to dwell in LOVE and UNITY. Some are in love but are not united, some are united but not in love! However, JaRule and Atkins are quite blessed to have both qualities going on in their lives as a couple! That is so applaudable!The "I'm in love with a church girl" super actor, sure knows how to keep it real and classic!They've been hit with the rumours, even the gay rumours, the pain of separation, been imprisoned for two years. However, they got it going! Obviously, some people still want the good life, they wanna keep it together, still!Every situation does not require a divorce, a little patience and understanding does it sometimes! Just know when to be!The beautiful couple  are blessed with 3 kids, a girl and two boys!We pray they keep it moving happily and united forever!

#JokeOfACouple: Singer 2Kay & Gifty Powers

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Singer 2kay and Gifty were rumoured to have been dating, in fact they dated!Things started going south when the light skinned Prima Donna was asked in interviews about her relationship with the singer, she repeatedly denied having any relationship with him. Mind you, this was not a mutual agreement between the duo. To cut the long story short, they went their different cardinal points. Gifty took to her social media handle to throw shades repeatedly at him while 2kay took to his studio to record about a Prima Donna who couldn't care less of her guy but for the money. Read the lyrics to the song titled "My money by 2kay" 'If you no love me, no love my money/ the guy carry her matter for head o/ them two begin to live together o/ like play, like play, she con turn public figure o/ but still on still, the guy still dey love am o/ but she dey give am lamba, plenty lamba/ dem go dey ask am of my guy, she go say she's single/.At a point Mr 2kay blamed their failed rela…

#ToWhomItMayConcern

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Divorce is not an option only when you don't treat your marriage like an option!

#DoNotBeDeceived

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Mr man or woman, stop giving excuses for your partner's glaring misbehaviours. E.g she is just 24 yaddah yaddah yaddah! We all know the difference between right and wrong when we see one! They can do better.

#QuoteOfTheDay

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Do not ever feel the need to revenge rejection. You can't be the one for everybody! -TKGOLD

#Yes/No

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When a man or woman in a relationship gives out their number to a random opposite sex...is that a bad omen to their current relationship, or is it at all a form of cheating?

#QuestionOfTheDay

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Some say love is wicked! What does that even mean?